According to a 20-year study from Penn State University, 55 to 60 per cent of divorcing couples discard marriages that still have real potential.
In this article from Oprah magazine, Tina Tessina offers 10 questions you can ask yourself to help clarify whether your relationship is worth persevering with or not.


















Hi Ann: Thanks for linking to this excellent article; it brings out some very important points, e.g. why do we feel we need to change someone? (learned that one after my 1st marriage failed). As someone who's been married for 30 years, I think if we're not vigilant, it's easy to slide into 'neglect' of our marriage - i.e. not speaking out, but also not curbing inappropriate grumpiness or complaint & judgments, not doing some fun/enjoyable things together,etc.
Ellen Besso
MidLife Coach, Author & Elder Care Expert
Posted by: Ellen Besso | April 22, 2010 at 08:04 PM
Hi Ellen
Thanks for stopping by and congratulations on 30 years, second time around. Sounds like this one is a keeper!
Ann
Posted by: Ann Harrison | April 23, 2010 at 12:46 PM