One of the newsletters that I'm always pleased to see turn up in my email inbox is that of Sandy Dempsey, who runs The Dreaming Cafe - tagline: 'Where self-discovery. self-expression and self-employment come together'.
One of Sandy's blog posts from the last week was entitled, 'I thought I had it all figured out', and in it she talks about all the things she didn't expect when she gave up her day job to become full-time self-employed. It struck me that a few of the things that Sandy didn't expect can also take retirees by surprise, namely:
'That I would miss the challenge of the work I used to do.
That I’d find myself so tired and so exhausted in the beginning that some days I could hardly get out of bed.
The number of hours, days and months it would take to shake the toxicity of the work environment I had left behind or to let go of the attitudes and beliefs I had adopted over the years to protect myself.
That I would miss my ex coworkers.
That I would feel alone and isolated.
That I would suddenly have to face my own surprising health issues.'
What do you think? Have you recently retired and found yourself bumping up against some unexpected emotions? Do you know someone who retired and found themselves struggling to cope with no longer being in the workplace? Let me know in the comments section below...
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